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Is it easy to find a true love?
True love is rare. Finding someone who fills your life and meets your spiritual, emotional, and physical needs is hard, and doesn’t happen to everyone.
Can true love be found?
Cynics often swear it doesn’t exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone should set out to find their soulmates. With science now showing that true love is not only possible, but can actually last a lifetime, we’ve decided to look at the psychological elements that allow love to bloom or fade.
Is true love rare or common?
True love is rare; we can only hope to find it once in a lifetime, and maybe not even then. The curve that charts love is very narrow – more like a steeple than a bell. It’s called a Poisson curve, and its classic example was the chance of being kicked to death by a horse while serving in the Prussian cavalry.
Why is true love so hard?
The most common reason why it’s so hard to fall in love is a fear of commitment. Labels can terrify some people, but for others, the uncertainty of where the relationship stands is also terrifying. And if you’ve found someone you care about (and could potentially even love), then be honest with them about how you feel.
Is Real Love Easy or hard?
Real Love isn’t Easy. True Love takes Work. I’m not convinced that real love is easy. Those who say it is—I wonder exactly what they are doing? Maybe myself, my clients, and everyone I actually know in relationships are wrong; but speaking with them tells me true love seems to be a bit of work.
How can I find true love?
Wise, godly people who know us well can also provide guidance in finding true love. Thinking that a person will or can fulfill us. Only God can truly fulfill us, so we don’t have to find romantic love to have a sense of fulfillment!
Is it ever too late to find true love?
Thinking it’s too late to find true love. Finding true love and getting married is not to be taken lightly. It is better to be cautious than to make a quick and reckless decision. Three times, the Song of Solomon warns, “Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires” ( Song of Solomon 2:7; 3:5; 8:4 ). God’s timing is always best.
Is “love” what we’re really looking for?
If the kind of “love” we see demonstrated in today’s sex-saturated culture is what we’re looking for, no wonder it seems difficult to find; it’s not true love we’re after but an experience that, by nature, can’t last for long. The Bible gives a much different picture of love.